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The difficulties in coping
with studies and examinations are compounded by the verbal torture
that parents often unleash on the poor performers. Comparisons
are inevitable within and outside the family, and the poorly performing
child is acutely made conscious of its inadequacies, and even
begins to believe it when the parents say: You are good for nothing.
Naturally, everybody cannot succeed in this mad race. The losers
outnumber the winners multi-fold, and so we end up with a fairly
large number of “good for nothing” individuals in
society, thanks to the neurotic delusions of their parents.
It is unfortunate but true
that religion, like education, has also been reduced to a means
to serve materialistic ends and to encourage delusion. The higher
and common objectives of religions, relating to the surrender
of the ego-self to the all-pervading ultimate reality, are lost
sight of, and it is only the lower forms of ritualistic worship
that are commonly practised. “God-fearing” is considered
virtuous, and it is obviously not recognised that fear is an unhealthy
basis for any relationship!
God, to many of us, is
some kind of a feudal lord to be appeased and worshipped periodically
so that “He” may bless us with all the goodies in
life. Such worship, unfortunately, does little to dispel the fundamental
delusion, and on the contrary, strengthens the false identification
with the ego-self.
One of the more serious
ailments of the present civilisation is its obsession with “productivity”
and the associated illusion of “progress”. As someone
once said: Passion is good, but not obsession, because obsession
results in lop-sidedness and imbalance. You may gain something
apparently precious, but at the same time lose something even
more precious. Our obsession with material progress in this technological
age has created all kinds of problems because of this. We are
hurtling “forward” at such a reckless speed that,
unless we slow down and ask whither and wherefore, it will be
difficult, if not impossible, to “sustain development”
of mankind as a whole.
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